Sunday, March 1, 2015

Guest blogger 101 — Possessions

Happy Sunday fellow Madgespace readers. Yes, that’s right this isn’t the bowl cut beauty herself. It is her sister Char with the exciting news that Madgespace is going to be taken over by guest bloggers for the next week. Saddle up and enjoy reading about the sentiments of a few, very select blog-sperts (blog + experts…kind of).

Possessions

As you all know, Madge is preparing to leave Edinburgh in a couple of weeks and, about six weeks later, I will be following suit. What can I say, I can’t live without the gal! Despite the move still being two months away, we’ve started going through all our stuff. We need to get the flat ready to rent and there’s no way we can bring everything we own.


Articles. Objects. Stuff. Things. Belongings. Wordly goods. 

For some, moving is stressful and emotional, filled with moments of deep nostalgia and debates about what to keep and what to throw or give away. Over the years I’ve discovered I’m just not this person. And it’s surprising — even to me. I mean, it's not like I'm not in tune with my emotions. I’m the one who tears up at the news of anyone and their dog's pregnancy and cries at every ridiculous rom-com. Heck, I even shed a few tears when my son pooped in the toilet for the first time.

So, how did I feel when I gave away the baby cradle? The frames that held our family photos? The dress I wore at my wedding?

ELATED. OVERJOYED. ECSTATIC.

My brain was chanting ‘less stuff, less stuff, less stuff!’ and I wanted to dance around our empty flat. Turns out, I am a minimalist. I LOVE that I can fit everything I own into two suitcases. It makes me feel footloose and fancy-free (although, ironically, using that phrase makes me feel old and immobile). It's also kind of a relief to realize I don't need things to keep me happy.

I guess The Beatles and One Direction were on to something.

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